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Become the Leader Your Child is Looking to Follow 

What does it means to Parent as a Leader?

Create Influence vs Exert Control

Rewards and punishments are manipulations to control others. That's just a fact. Doing those things, or having them done to you, makes you feel gross. I know you remember being a child and thinking, "I'm never going to do this to my child."

Manipulation, no matter how positive you make it, erodes your connection to your child. When the connection is broken, you lose all your influence.

Influence is the way to have long term impact. You want your child to ask you for advice for their entire life. That only happens by building your influence. 

In this community, you will learn how to build and use your parenting influence.

Understanding Replaces Miscommunication

Adults and children communicate in different ways.

When you and your child misunderstand each other, it creates a disconnect in your relationship. You pull away from each other. To be influential you strive to correct miscommunication.

This means you have to learn and understand how your child makes sense of the world.

Your child will struggle to communicate clearly. That's why it's so important for you to create clear communication. Wondering how to do that?

I'm here to bridge the gaps in your knowledge of how your child communicates and how to clearly communicate with your child.

This means you have to gain an understanding of how your child makes sense of the world.

Your child will struggle to  communicate clearly.  That's why it's so important for you to create clear communication. Wondering how to do that?

I'm here to bridge the gap in your understanding of how your child communicates and how to clearly communicate with your child.

Your Child Above All Others

Do you put your child above others? I'm sure you’re nodding your head, saying, “Yes!”

But, I have a question for you. When you're at the grocery store, whose experience are you more worried about? Your child's? Or the other shoppers'?

It may surprise you how often you put others above your child. You're doing this out of a true desire to teach your child consideration for others. Unfortunately, this reduces your child's desire to listen to you.

The family structure evolved to protect its members. Originally, our biggest threats might have been starvation and wild animals, but now, our children are more likely to be at the mercy of social media bullying and scary ideas about how they should look. If you want to have more influence over your child than their peer group or the media, you have to revive your role as protector and be their safest place, both emotionally and physically.

Your Membership 

$39 per month

  • Monthly Live Q&A Sessions
  • Rewatch past sessions in Your Members Area 
  • Participate in discussions in Your Members Area
  • Members Only Online Community
  • Members Only Bonuses
  • Cancel at Anytime

Add Sleep Support 

for only $6/month

Sleep is an issue that can impact the entire functioning of a family. You can add a monthly Sleep Q&A Session to your membership.

Pricing Options

Which one is right for you?




Monthly Live Q&A

Monthly Teaching Video

Online Community

20% Discount 

Cancel Anytime





Monthly Live Q&A

Monthly Teaching Video

Online Community

20% Discount


Sleep Membership 

Discipline with Yes Workshop





Monthly Live Q&A

Monthly Live Sleep Q&A

Monthly Teaching Video

Online Community

20% Discount

Cancel Anytime


Discipline with Yes 8-Week Online Workshop

when you prepay for the year or commit to your membership for a year you get this online workshop for free! 



Need a few things cleared up?

What days and times are the live sessions?

Live Sessions are the First Tuesday on every month at 8:00 pm MST.  Sleep Calls are the Third Tuesdays at 1:00 pm MST. New Teaching Videos are posted on the second Tuesdays of the month.

How long are the live sessions?

Each session will be at least an hour and a half. But they can be longer. IT just depends on how many people are on the call and how many questions everyone has. 

How do I participate in a live session?

The live sessions will take place on Zoom. Zoom is a free program you can use on your favorite device. Go here to download it. You will be emailed the link so you can access the live session. You can join or leave at anytime during the broadcast. 

What if I can't make the live sessions?

All the session are recorded and posted to you member area within 48 hours of the live session ending. You can watch and rewatch the session as many times as you want. There is also a comments section for each video. If you have follow up questions on anything discussed during the session you can ask and comment in that area.

Can I still ask a question if I'm going to miss the live session?

YES! You’ll be able to email questions prior to the session and ask questions in the discussion section of the videos of each session in your member area.

Those who are on live will get priority in asking questions. It’s possible if you email your question there won’t be time for me to answer it.

But I sometimes pop in live to the facebook group to answer a question I couldn’t get to live.

What topics will be covered?

The main focus is on understanding children and bringing theory into daily practice. So, we will cover everything! 

Here are some areas we will spend time covering: potty training, transitions, traumatic events, sibling relationships, tantrums, eating habits, table manners, being considerate, listening, following directions, development, positive language, media, electronics, TV watching.

Sleep is such a big issue it has it own session. You can add on the sleep session to your membership.

Is there a specific age range that will be focused on?

Yes and no. Live Sessions you can ask about any topic any age. Teaching videos will be on specific topics or ages.




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